I wrote on my other blog a few weeks ago about how much I DREAD the arrival of the holiday toy catalogs in the mail. The moment they enter the front door is the last moment I have any quiet until Christmas is over. The air is constantly filled with, "I want, I want, I want!!!" Leading up to Thanksgiving, I try to help everyone in our family to focus on the blessing of things we have instead of things we want. It is usually pretty successful, and if I try hard to carry that over through the Christmas season, the "I Want's" die down to a manageable rate.
Throughout December the boys and I focus our thoughts and energy on the simplicity of giving to other people instead of the intensity of keeping our Santa lists up-to-date. This has been one of our favorite activities...
The Recipients: The people who live on our street
The Activity: Make & Deliver a small treat
The Goal: Add a joyful surprise to the mundane task of getting the mail.
Here's how we did it:
First, we counted out 10 chocolate squares, & 10 candy canes, then glued the top of the chocolate squares...
...and put the candy canes on top...
Next we tied ribbon around the candy "package". I would advise making sure the ribbons are long enough for a new knot-tier and then trim them up.
Always let the kids choose a comfortable place to work...
The last step in creating our mailbox surprises was cutting out the tags and tying them on top.
I used these tags, but also really liked these ones...
NOW ON TO THE DELIVERY!!!
My boys understand the concept of doing nice things for other people, but still, they're young. I did want them to feel the reward at the end and had promised they could have some after we'd made our deliveries. Still they were whine and beg to eat chocolate and candy canes. My ears bleed with the racket and I almost always prematurely decide the activity was an epic fail. BUT, the minute we walk out the door, their whole attitude changes! They get giddy, running from mailbox to mailbox and wanting to make SURE they don't miss anybody. They get sad when a mailbox is empty, because that means the neighbor has already picked up their mail for the day. I've caught them peeking out the window the next day to make sure those people get their goodies!
I'd love to hear how you help your little ones understand the joy of giving or have you share this post with someone looking to add more giving into their holiday season!